Wednesday, December 28, 2011

A long lost friend...

5 to 6 years ago...

to be exact he is my mentor..
I was very green in this social, he pick me up soon after my national service days..
during that time i was a young and green interior designer who dont know about anything in this social..
He brought me out to see the world and teach me along my career path...

From mentor we became friends, from friend we became "brother" from brother became business partner...

along the way we went thru things together.. we fought together, we enjoy together, we shared our ups and down together and now were to think back it was so much fun...

during Interior time, we were colleague and we work very hard to help the company.. we waork hard of cos we play hard.. as and when if we were stress up with work, we went out for a short drink.

from a short drink till we become party animals.. lolx.. he taught me how to be better in working life and i taught him how to become a gd drinker...

and then our story started from there on..
we started to drink so much and started to know more n more people those days in the pub.. and that when daily rountine happens.. 6 in the evening waiting for phone call.. haha even if the phone nv rings we will ring up pple else.. i am the devils!!!

hopping from pub to pub and finally we settled down at a pub somewhere near our resident place...

and many thing start goes wrong from there...

the pub became our so call director meeting point.. we use to discuss our company stuff over then and after that party like animal..
some how i also felt abit guilty for what i had made him change...

he got hook on to fling and actually left his own family.. He has his own reason and of cos it is his family matter therefore i cant touch on too much...
on that day onwards.. we started to drift apart...

many ugly side had surfaced..

thats the reason why from business partner, we bacame stranger back again...
but of cos as and when we do call up each other for help as we both in the same line..

I dont blame him for wat he had done as partially i do have my wrong doing too but as least now we are still frens..

During the days when we are stranger, i heard alot of his down fall.. once a while if we are near by we will meet up for coffee but that was i think once in a blue moon only haha.. during the meet up, i can feel the stress and pressure that he is having cos its written on his face..

Today.....
We meet up for coffee..
i can see the change in him.. Now he is leading a peaceful life as he knows when to work and when to rest.. he pick up course to upgrade himself during free time and also started reading as his hobby..
the last time i heard him converted to a christian was this year around march...
the stress and pressure he use to have on his face was totally gone.. even the way he spoke to me also different.. last time i heard him telling me that he had changed but i cant feel any.. but he didnt tell me anything i can feel it...

we had a short chat updating both ourself on our life and we are both happy that we are changing for the better...

he doing quite well now and im happy for him that he is on the path to success.. i believe he can as he is a experianced guy and nv before i doubt his ability in work.. somehow he was jus lost during those days back...

never do i wants to set my resolution for coming 2012.. but after meeting him,

My RESOLUTION IS...

-Work hard more to strive for better and make my company grow up a little bit more..
-Recover from all kind of finance bad debt
-improve my living lifestyle
-move on with my life
-"QUIT SOMKING" a bit hard maybe...

HAhaha

Few more days 2012!!!
STRIVE HARD!!!!
no more PLAY HARD!!!!

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