Give and take? or take two hands to clap....

Happy New year to all frends and family member... Its officially 2012...
May all study personal have gd progress in this year
May all working adults get their promotion this year
and May all pple have a happy, healthy and wealthy life this year.

This year also another diff counting party lolx... Its also my boss day...
Past few years, spent counting down for each and every new year were out there drinking with fren and fellow buddies.. this year a calm and peaceful count down...

Thinking back each and every year.. This year was the least i recieved the greeting msg from my fren... Sad... and this also means that getting lesser friends each year...
hmmm...

Give and take...

give-and-take
n
1. mutual concessions, shared benefits, and cooperation
2. a smoothly flowing exchange of ideas and talk
vb give and take (intr)
to make mutual concessions

give-and-take
noun compromise, agreement, concession, co-operation, flexibility, reciprocity a happy relationship where there's a lot of give-and-take

This is the defination from http://www.thefreedictionary.com/give-and-take

From dictionary.. am i not clear or not understand the meaning or other mis-interpret in their own ways?

Recenlty lots of small issues or disscussion which leads me to a cross junction. IM lost in the world of finding my road once again...
No matter how well i explained or to set an example, it actually come back hitting me that my mind got corrupted or hitting me back that i nv want to face the fact that there is other ways of doing things..

The problem is that i know there are many alternative choice and ways of doing things that really i can accept the way of other pple doing thing and i can face the fact that there are tons of ways out there to sort things out. I do accept but then on the other hand have you got the idea of your own problem? the biggest problem is that you know that you dont have problem lolx.. did i put it in the right way??

The story of a screw driver and a screw story begins...

when a + screw meets a + head screw driver wow.. very fast things can be unscrew..
when a - screw meets a - head screw driver, again wow.. things work out the same way..

but..

when a + screw meets a - head screw driver things still can sort it out maybe not that smooth but still the screw can be remove over a longer periods of time.

and..

When a - screw meets a + head screw driver, no matter how hard you try, it will nv unscrew worst still the screw will get spoiled.

moral of the story?
of cos if we gets the right tools in sorting out our life situation, we will have out road clear and smooth no matter wat happens..
but if we got the wrong tools in our life, we got a harder and tougher road to move on or maybe even worst we cant gets our things solved.

In life we give and take.. the screw always the one who giving in the sign and the screw driver always taking the given thread to unscrew the things.

but if it is a + screw and a - screw driver, they both have to give in as much as possible and take as least as possible because it really take two hand to clap so that the screw can be unscrewed...

this lesson applies to all relationship, friendship, family matters....
i believe this explain out all i wanted to voice out..

nv didnt i wan to try or not but realise the core of the problem lies here how can i unsolve this mystery??
Well that maybe takes my life time or nv it will be solved and let it become mystery.

life...
lolx..
really no comment..